resources for effective children's ministry
In these issues of "About the Children's Department" and "About the Youth Department" we have reviews of a number of excellent resources to help you as your pass on a legacy of faith to your children and the children in your ministry as well as a number of ideas you may find effective in your ministry. I am especially happy with three areas of reviews - first on the new FaithWeaver curriculum . . . it is an excellent curriculum! Second, I have put together my "top 12" lists for books for children and youth . . . in the next issue I will include a "top 10" list of parenting resources. And thirdly, I have had the joy of reviewing a number of excellent Bibles and encourage parents and teachers to consider presenting their children/students with a Bible as we enter this new millennium.
I would like to encourage churches to begin a "Loving Words Campaign". In my church I teach the Wednesday evening children's ministry and one Wednesday a few months ago one of the older boys walked in to class and said, "Well, the nightmare is here." This made me feel very sad for him. Clearly he has been told he is a nightmare and while his parents love him, they do not have very strong parenting skills. I had just finished reviewing the book, Loving Words Every Child Needs to Hear" so the next day I spoke with my Pastor about beginning a "Loving Words Campaign". Each week we print "the Loving Words for the week" in our bulletin and encourage parents to make a point of using these words during the coming week with their children. As it says in this book, children who grow up hearing loving words spoken to them, will become people who use loving words with others. It is so obvious from the news and from looking at families in our own churches and communities there is a very real need for us to commit to be people who use loving words with our children. I believe most parents want to help their children grow up experiencing joy - we just don't always remember to speak and act to encourage this outcome. Consider beginning a "Loving Words Campaign" in your church - I believe you will see a difference in the lives of the children, teens and families in your church if you do!
Every Child Needs to Hear
It matters so much the home is a place where children truly feel loved - it should be a refuge, a safe haven. In far too many homes, this is not the case, but we in children's and even youth ministry can make a difference by helping parents learn how to support, encourage and affirm children and teens. No matter what the age of our children, they need the verbal affirmation they are loved and cherished members of the family. This book provides an abundance of "loving Words" examples to help parents and teachers be more aware of what to be sure their children/class hear.
Steps to begin a "Loving Words Campaign" church wide!
Goal: To help parents learn to support, encourage and affirm children with loving words!
This challenge won't take long to implement, but the following checklist should help.
One Month Before -
One of the most important roles the church can fill is one of helping to build and strengthen families and this is a simple yet effective way we can do just that!
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About The Children's Department - Volume 3, Edition 2
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Last Updated November 30, 1999
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